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Last week, I attended a seminar/workshop about early childhood experiences and their influence on our psychological development as human beings

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I do a lot continuously to increase my psychic abilities and remain connected to the astral world. But you might not have been aware that I also do a lot on an ongoing basis to comprehend the psychology of humanity – including this.

The seminar was full of revelations. 

Since I attended, I’ve been looking at my roster of clients and mentees in a different light. Usually, I take people as I find them, if you know what I mean… 

I focus primarily on the present and the future, and the past only comes up if there’s, say, a karmic/birth chart issue or a growing problem that I need to track back and determine the origins of to find a resolution.

But I understand now, more directly than ever, that there are subtleties beyond obviously problematic and destructive situations. 

And I’ve been pondering hypotheticals. For instance…

Is a hesitant, slow-to-act overthinker innately this way, or do they become this way as a child because they are criticized for their spontaneity, told to think things through, perhaps even told not to trust their instincts?

Is a brash, confident, sometimes selfish person innately this way, or do they adopt these behaviors as a defense mechanism against cruelty, having been subject to it by those who could perceive their weakness as a child?

As kids, we take shape and grow into the adults we remain for a long, long time. Past the age of about 25, development and change reduce significantly. Those first two decades are when most of the magic happens. 

But how much of our growth (how much of that magic) is connected to our minds, feelings and desires? And how much of it is based on trauma inflicted by society?

A few days ago, I developed and put into use an analysis method relying on my special abilities and a few unique crystals from my collection.

I can now complete what I call a “Traumatic Divergence Assessment.”

I can look at a person’s destiny, fate and karmic path. Then, I can zone into moments where that path branches in a new direction. Then, I can pull myself into that moment, experience it as they once did, and examine why the divergence occurred.

At this point, I can say whether or not a person has experienced a moment of traumatic divergence.

Examples of traumatic divergence include:

  • A child playing enthusiastically in the garden is criticized, called “annoying” by an adult, leading them down a path of increasing silence and shrinkage
  • A child is “parentified” (made responsible for managing their parents’ emotions), leading them down a path where they feel the need to fix things constantly
  • A child attempts to say “no” to a request and is completely shut down by their caregiver, leading them down a path of submission and conflict avoidance

There are a million possible variations. And perhaps, since I’m writing to you about all of this today, you’re beginning to see where I’m heading…

The headline is that I performed a Traumatic Divergence Assessment for you yesterday. And I found a moment. 

During your first year of school or thereabouts (memory is not perfect and infallible, so we could be slightly off – but I doubt we are), you were sharing your interests with an adult, cheerfully and excitedly explaining something.

Then, with no warning – at least in your eyes – you were dismissed entirely. Deflated. You realized this adult had no interest and, in fact, thought you were odd.

Thus, you were led down a path that you remain on to this day. (And that’s what we need to talk about, really. But we’ll get to it.)

You were led down a path of believing that you COULDN’T and SHOULDN’T share your true self with others. You developed a negativity bias that you played off as idealism and decided was innate to you. 

But it’s not innate. It’s poison holding you back from making deeper, stronger connections with other people. 

If you’ve ever felt robotic and disconnected from the social world… This is likely why.

But you know what? It’s time to take the weight off your shoulders! It’s time to realize who you are without the limitations and judgments that others want to put on you!

If someone thinks you’re strange and abnormal because you’re being yourself? That’s their issue. Not yours. I can help you regain control of your narrative, defending young        , current         and future         in one fell swoop. 

I can share my TWELVE DIRECTIVES OF SELF-LOVE with you as soon as you request them. 

I developed these Directives over years of psychological and spiritual research and rarely share them with anyone else. But now I see how you’ve been limited? I know you need them. 

I know you’ll benefit immensely from these insights. 

Prove you care as much as I do about learning to love who you honestly are,        . Don’t let childlike fear of judgment keep you from what you need.

I’ll give you until the end of         to ask me for your Twelve Directives. That should be more than enough time to weigh up your options and come to the correct conclusion, right?

As a taster of how it feels to care more about your own opinion than the foolish, ill-informed opinions of another, I’ll even share a FREE gift with you right now.

This is your Mantra of Total Self-Appreciation,        . Speak it to your reflection in the mirror with your hands clasped together, holding each other…

“Though easy to recognize the things I’m not,

Today, I adore all the gifts that I’ve got,

I’m loving, I’m caring, my feelings are deep,

Not a simple swimming pool but a vast blue sea,

I’m passionate, creative, alive in my mind,

Some days, my ideas just cannot be confined,

I was never made to be like everyone else,

Not a decorative ornament to sit on the shelf,

I was made to be, to do, to change, to take up space,

And with a little love and faith, I know I’ll find my place,

Come hell or high water, I appreciate you,

I choose to give you care; I start anew.”

Plus, I’ll share a second FREE gift to accompany the one you’ve already received – your Post-Conflict Emotional Reset Ritual.

This Ritual will allow you to shed negativity after an argument with someone. To regain perspective on who you are, how you feel, and where you stand. It will prevent unnecessary self-flagellation and reduce the likelihood of a total emotional meltdown.

In short,        , it’s time to learn to love yourself even when others can’t. It’s time to be what the child version of you sorely needed.

Your inability to appreciate who you are is the thing that holds you back more than anything else, and I know that now. So, I need to help. More than money worries, professional stumbles, passing astral issues, etc. – this is the root of the root.

Let’s flip the script…

 

Your loving friend,

Ask for Your Twelve Directives of Self-Love

+ Free Post-Conflict Emotional Reset Ritual